Chocolate Sticks, Vanilla Icing......

Hello Readers,
I know its been a couple days since I've let my "bias" opinions flow, but today I'm going to try something a little different, and look at bothsides instead of just "my side"!
Tonight I asked an age old question to a few friends "Why do black men of notariety, financial stability, and status, date, and/or marry white women?" (i.e., those Kardashian broads, and black athletes). And believe it or not, I got a lot of different points of views as to why it occurs more frequently than not. Yes people the room was filled with loud mouth squawking chicks, a very over opinionated male (who joined us by phone!!!) and tention so thick it made Buffy the Body look like an anorexic white girl!!!
Some of the opinions, and comparisons that I got were thought provoking, others were just plain idiocy!! So let me start by giving my main reasons as to why Our Men date "those women".
For years in the era of slavery, being with a white woman was a crime, and that went as far as to say that if you were caught staring, drooling, associating with outside of what was socially exspected, or even touching a white woman, you were hanged, stoned, shot, flat out killed, and even then black men would risk their lives to experience this forbidden creature. This woman, (although genetically the same as a black woman), was thought to be "different" because of the color of her skin, the color of her eyes, or the texture of her hair. I guess in some minds she imitated the likeness of the mythological creatures such as a mermaid, or a unicorn. So as time progressed, and freedom occurred, having this "different" kind of woman never subsided in the minds of black men. So to have a white woman on your arm in public is now looked upon as an upranking in alot of social settings, almost being compared to winning a trophy. Or, having a white woman was thought to be caused by a black man's social make up, or his social setting. So now lets get real....I think that the whole inter racial dating that happens between a black man and white women is a garbage can of used tampons!!! I actually see this type of dating as to say that we Queens are not looked upon as a social equal to a white woman. Case in point. Rayshaun was born in the "hood", not the brightest crayon in the box, fairly handsome, but could dribble a ball that would one day lead to a life altering career change. Rayshaun found Taquisha while he was on the rise in high school, and ultimately getting a scholarship and going to college. Struggling all through his college days, no money, barely eating, and struggling to make the grade, Taquisha was in his corner. She worked her part time job at the local Quickie Mart, supporting her man in hopes that he would provide a better life for she, and him. Well, Mr. Rayshaun gets a shot in the NBA draft, and of course he is drafted to a top ranking team. Ms Taquisha is so excited for her "Boo". Rayshaun gets an abundance of playing time and becomes nationally known, and his circle of friends start to change. More women start to pay him the kind of attention that he had never known. So calls to Taquisha become short, and eventually less and less. Fewer visits to see his chick, ultimately ending in him telling her that their lives are going in different directions, and he's just not feeling her anymore. He wants to be single now that he is making cookies, and not just dough. Six months later Mr. Rayshaun is married to a new chick, and her name is Becky Sue! A pigment deprived woman that had gotten close to Rayshaun while he was away. So no more Taquisha!!! The man that she had supported when he had nothing, did what ninety percent of black athletes do, once the storm is weathered, he doesn't seek shade with a beautiful BLACK woman, he gets a "JUDY"!!! How tired are we? How fed up are we? We are so tired and fed up, we become these independent power houses that are quick to tell a black man " I don't need you nigga", that we end up lonely and bitter. Should we have to settle for a second rate man, that only makes "booty" calls, or takes us out on dates when he hits a "lick"? HELL NO! So that's when you get the neck rolling, lip smacking, finger pointing Sista' that turns her nose up at these second rate men, that thinks that he deserves a shot at the title jus because he has a big long "chocolate" stick. C'mon...for real? Then these so-called men are quick to say, "I don't want a chick that's quick with the neck rolling, lip smacking, and finger pointing". "If I pay the bills, the I don't have to answer questions like where you been, or who else are you sleeping with besides me?" He uses the excuse that he doesn't want to hear the nagging so..................................he gets with and marries a "JUDY". Why? Well it is said that she knows her place. Or it could just honestly be Love?!!
Gimme a break with the corny lines, and bulls*@! excuses!!!!!!!!!!!
To honestly sum it up, black men want what they think is socially acceptable, and its money hungry, conniving, blood sucking white women!!
With all of that said, some people might think that I'm racist, or that mzlyrical30 has no white female friends, and that's not true at all. I like some white women, I really do, that is until they cross the line of trying to take what is left of our men that hasn't been consumed by gangs, drugs, jail, or death....then we have a problem!!
People I could go on for dasys about this one subject, but I'm going to end it here....so holla at me, let me know your thoughts on the subject.
Until another time all................................................................................