Chocolate Sticks, Vanilla Icing......

Hello Readers,
I know its been a couple days since I've let my "bias" opinions flow, but today I'm going to try something a little different, and look at bothsides instead of just "my side"!
Tonight I asked an age old question to a few friends "Why do black men of notariety, financial stability, and status, date, and/or marry white women?" (i.e., those Kardashian broads, and black athletes). And believe it or not, I got a lot of different points of views as to why it occurs more frequently than not. Yes people the room was filled with loud mouth squawking chicks, a very over opinionated male (who joined us by phone!!!) and tention so thick it made Buffy the Body look like an anorexic white girl!!!
Some of the opinions, and comparisons that I got were thought provoking, others were just plain idiocy!! So let me start by giving my main reasons as to why Our Men date "those women".
For years in the era of slavery, being with a white woman was a crime, and that went as far as to say that if you were caught staring, drooling, associating with outside of what was socially exspected, or even touching a white woman, you were hanged, stoned, shot, flat out killed, and even then black men would risk their lives to experience this forbidden creature. This woman, (although genetically the same as a black woman), was thought to be "different" because of the color of her skin, the color of her eyes, or the texture of her hair. I guess in some minds she imitated the likeness of the mythological creatures such as a mermaid, or a unicorn. So as time progressed, and freedom occurred, having this "different" kind of woman never subsided in the minds of black men. So to have a white woman on your arm in public is now looked upon as an upranking in alot of social settings, almost being compared to winning a trophy. Or, having a white woman was thought to be caused by a black man's social make up, or his social setting. So now lets get real....I think that the whole inter racial dating that happens between a black man and white women is a garbage can of used tampons!!! I actually see this type of dating as to say that we Queens are not looked upon as a social equal to a white woman. Case in point. Rayshaun was born in the "hood", not the brightest crayon in the box, fairly handsome, but could dribble a ball that would one day lead to a life altering career change. Rayshaun found Taquisha while he was on the rise in high school, and ultimately getting a scholarship and going to college. Struggling all through his college days, no money, barely eating, and struggling to make the grade, Taquisha was in his corner. She worked her part time job at the local Quickie Mart, supporting her man in hopes that he would provide a better life for she, and him. Well, Mr. Rayshaun gets a shot in the NBA draft, and of course he is drafted to a top ranking team. Ms Taquisha is so excited for her "Boo". Rayshaun gets an abundance of playing time and becomes nationally known, and his circle of friends start to change. More women start to pay him the kind of attention that he had never known. So calls to Taquisha become short, and eventually less and less. Fewer visits to see his chick, ultimately ending in him telling her that their lives are going in different directions, and he's just not feeling her anymore. He wants to be single now that he is making cookies, and not just dough. Six months later Mr. Rayshaun is married to a new chick, and her name is Becky Sue! A pigment deprived woman that had gotten close to Rayshaun while he was away. So no more Taquisha!!! The man that she had supported when he had nothing, did what ninety percent of black athletes do, once the storm is weathered, he doesn't seek shade with a beautiful BLACK woman, he gets a "JUDY"!!! How tired are we? How fed up are we? We are so tired and fed up, we become these independent power houses that are quick to tell a black man " I don't need you nigga", that we end up lonely and bitter. Should we have to settle for a second rate man, that only makes "booty" calls, or takes us out on dates when he hits a "lick"? HELL NO! So that's when you get the neck rolling, lip smacking, finger pointing Sista' that turns her nose up at these second rate men, that thinks that he deserves a shot at the title jus because he has a big long "chocolate" stick. C'mon...for real? Then these so-called men are quick to say, "I don't want a chick that's quick with the neck rolling, lip smacking, and finger pointing". "If I pay the bills, the I don't have to answer questions like where you been, or who else are you sleeping with besides me?" He uses the excuse that he doesn't want to hear the nagging so..................................he gets with and marries a "JUDY". Why? Well it is said that she knows her place. Or it could just honestly be Love?!!
Gimme a break with the corny lines, and bulls*@! excuses!!!!!!!!!!!
To honestly sum it up, black men want what they think is socially acceptable, and its money hungry, conniving, blood sucking white women!!
With all of that said, some people might think that I'm racist, or that mzlyrical30 has no white female friends, and that's not true at all. I like some white women, I really do, that is until they cross the line of trying to take what is left of our men that hasn't been consumed by gangs, drugs, jail, or death....then we have a problem!!
People I could go on for dasys about this one subject, but I'm going to end it here....so holla at me, let me know your thoughts on the subject.
Until another time all................................................................................

Praise????

Hello people!!
So I'm back running off at the mouth like a leaking faucet!! To start, I have to say thank you to some of the characters on Facebook that give me my inspiration. Without alot of you people, bloggers like me would have nothing to "blogg" about.
My topic today comes from alot of the "Praise HIM", posts that i see ever so frequently on FB. And I can't help but to wonder did some of these people just get out of jail? Were they incarcerated by society so long that that the only way to get redemption is to shove it down our throats? I mean honestly do you people actually believe that The Most High will forgive your outlandish behavior, or your insensitive words just because you are posting on Facebook how much you praise Him? Is there nothing more interesting in your life that you have to bring a form of "Church" into our social media outlets? Maybe not!!! Maybe those frequent holy posters never paid attention as to why you couldn't read the bible in PUBLIC school, or sing praising HYMNS, outside of your PERSONAL CHURCHES? Well you numb skulls, there is a strict seperation between Church and State. DUH!!!! And if you don't know what that means just read and listen for a taste!! Here's a lil research link for you people to chew on!!!
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/First_Amendment_to_the_United_States_Constitution

Don't get me wrong, there is an amendmant that gives you the freedom of speech, but what alot of people don't know is that there is a clause in that amendmant that says that you can have your free speech a long as it doesn't infringe on other people's opinions, or offend them. Then there's the clause that protect loud mouths like me by freedom of press.( But that's a whole other blogg.)
Alot of you serial Facebook Praise Him posters really have a misconception of religion, and how He will forgive you at the time of redemption. Most of you think that if I constantly post on FB scriptures from the Good Book, or if I quote some "meaningful religious" quote off a greeting card, the the Lord will forgive all of my shortcomings. WRONG ANSWER you misguided hypocrites!!!!!!!! In my many years of religion in a catholic upbringing, I have learned that private reconciliation with The Most High heals the soul, noit the public spectacle that you serial Posters are making it.
So as I bring my rant to an end, know that once you get right with SELF, The Most High will get right with you. You don't have to put it out on the social medias to get forgiveness. Forgive yourself first, and all else will be forgiven.
Until tommorrow readers!!!

So called "FRIENDS"

ok so how about my life is really changing. and when there are significant changes in your life, you look to that one person, or those special persons to turn to to either vent, get that warm hug from, or just listen. but these days people like that are rare, and the term "friend" is used so loosely it might as well be an unhealthy additive in your favorite cereal.
there are a couple people that i have been so-called "friends" with, and instead of us growing together, either we have grown apart, or i'm ready to beat a bitch down!! i mean stop me if im wrong, or you really dont agree with my point of view. maybe i am looking at it from the wron perspective, or my glasses are covered with jaded fingerprints.
so what is a true "friend"? well my bitch would be ride or die!!( lemme hear my dogs bark!!!) i can tell her a secret, and no matter if we argue, or fight, she's taking my secret to her grave. a friend is a person that when u are down that broad is getting stilts to prop you back up on! a friend is that chick that when she gets that signal we goin to war...no questions asked. but these days the 24 karat gold plated chicks that have claimed to be my friends end up buried after the war.
i had this chick that called herself my "friend", (nd i was gonna be respectful and leave her nameless but repsect went out the door when backstabbing came over!) Kristie Mason. this gutter rat was a bartender at a local bar that i was a loyal patron at. she was a younger chick workin at a bar that catered to older customers. we used to talk everyday, and compare bar stories. so when the opprotunity cam about for me to offer her a better position at a bar that i was managing, i immediately offered it to her. well little did i know that this chick that was supoosed to be my "friend", was plotting with the one of the other partners to push me out, and for her to take my place. the when i comfronted that rusty whore about it, she looked me in my face and said, "i didnt do anything to you, and it is what it is". and all ni had to say was wow...(but that was after i went down to the bar and called her outside so that i could bet her ass!! but she didn't come out!!! lol) but this box built cock sucker was what i called a friend, because when she need help with her housing sitaution, she called me and i helped her out. but what goes around comes around, and nothing comes to backstabbers.
but what hurt my heart the most is a chick that called herself my "friend", just pulled herself away from me. i am a bi-sexual woman, and now that i am loving myself and is embracing my sexuality, i guess she feels like we can no longer be friends, because what i've done isnt making me happy, and it's not right. but i did say that she was in a feminine relationship for four years right? o...yes i did!! she's with the guy she left for a broad, but since she is in a "normal" relationship, then she has room now to pass judgement on others? yea fuckin rite! the way i see it is if she was so happy regardless of what i was doing, she would be my friend, and happy for me regardless.
so people, i guess i am saying all this to say...it might not ne the people that i call my "friends" with the problem, it must be the me and the way i pick my "friends" that could be tje problem.
it time to RE-EVALUATE me!!!